In order to obtain all that you desire, you must first have the desire. For a select few life happens without effort, but the rest of us have to work at it.
In order to be a better person, you have to want to be better. If you want to live your best life, you have to want the best for yourself. If you're tired of struggling, you must have the desire to improve. Your success depends on how bad you want it and what you are willing to do to get it.
You don't have to want for nothing...you should want for EVERYTHING instead!